URGENT UPDATE: In a series of newly published responses, Miss Manners has addressed pressing social etiquette dilemmas that many are facing during this holiday season. Just today, she provided practical solutions for handling uncomfortable situations, particularly regarding cellphone use at dinner and responding to open house invitations.
A concerned reader expressed discomfort as a friend frequently passes around his cellphone to share photos during meals. With her husband being immunocompromised, the reader is understandably worried about germ exposure. Miss Manners suggests a straightforward approach: either privately discuss with the friend about creating a device-free environment or tactfully intercept the phone herself before it reaches her husband. This advice is crucial as phone-passing has become a common nuisance, and ensuring the safety of loved ones is paramount.
In another inquiry, a reader questioned how to respond to a neighbor’s recent invitation for a post-Christmas open house, where guests are expected to bring food. With no RSVP request included, the reader feels uncertain about their obligation. Miss Manners firmly states that etiquette dictates a response is necessary, even if declining the invitation. This highlights the ongoing relevance of polite communication in our increasingly informal society.
Furthermore, Miss Manners addressed a complex scenario involving friends who lack shared interests in travel. She reassured readers that they are not obliged to travel with friends who do not align with their passions. Instead, she advises maintaining discretion about future travel plans, emphasizing the importance of personal enjoyment over social obligation.
As holiday gatherings approach, these insights from Miss Manners are particularly relevant, guiding individuals on how to navigate tricky social situations while prioritizing health and personal preferences.
For those looking for detailed guidance on etiquette, Miss Manners invites readers to submit their questions through her website, www.missmanners.com, or email her directly at [email protected].
Stay tuned for more updates as the holiday season unfolds, and be sure to share these valuable tips to help others navigate their own social dilemmas during this busy time.
