A Methodist pastor in Rochester, New York, publicly announced plans to transition from male to female during a church service on November 23, 2025. Rev. Phillip Phaneuf, of the North Chili United Methodist Church, shared this personal journey with his congregation, expressing his commitment to authenticity and self-identity.
During the Sunday service, Phaneuf wore a rainbow stole and addressed the congregation with enthusiasm. “So I get to announce with joy that I’m transitioning,” he said. “I’m affirming to all of you that I am transgender. The best way to put this is that I’m not becoming a woman, I’m giving up pretending to be a man.” His announcement included the declaration of his asexuality, stating that he experiences little or no sexual attraction to others.
Phaneuf revealed that he will adopt the name Phillippa and will use the pronouns she/her. He has already begun hormone replacement therapy, which he confirmed has been ongoing for the past three months. This treatment is expected to bring changes to his appearance, voice, and hair over time.
Support from the Church Community
The pastor emphasized that his transition has the full support of the church and its bishop, noting that he consulted with church leadership before making the announcement. “What will stay the same is my deepening love for all of you,” Phaneuf remarked, assuring his congregation that his pastoral duties will not be affected by this change.
Despite the support from church officials, Phaneuf disclosed that his parents do not approve of his decision. During the sermon, he conveyed their message: “They asked me to tell you all that they do not support me.”
The United Methodist Church has made significant strides in affirming LGBTQ+ identities in recent years. In a shift from previous policies, the church now recognizes human sexuality as a “sacred gift,” applicable to all individuals, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. According to the church’s official website, they commit to “befriending and caring for all persons, including LGBTQ persons in our churches and communities.”
Phaneuf’s announcement represents a broader movement within the United Methodist Church toward inclusion and acceptance, particularly as society’s views on gender identity continue to evolve. His journey has not only sparked conversation within the church community but also highlights the personal struggles many face in their quest for authenticity and acceptance.
