The community of Everly is in mourning following the peaceful passing of Gary Lee Scharnberg, affectionately known as “Farmer,” on December 26, 2025, at the age of 82. Born on October 13, 1943, in Cherokee, Iowa, Gary’s life was marked by dedication to family, community, and service to his country.
Early Life and Education
Gary was born to Mildred (Millie) Struve Scharnberg and Robert (Bob) Scharnberg, who was stationed in Guam during World War II. His birth provided a source of connection for his family amid the trials of war, with his father receiving nearly daily letters about Gary’s progress. The Scharnberg family returned to their farm near Everly, where Gary grew up embracing a life filled with sports and academics.
In high school, Gary excelled as an athlete, particularly in track and field, earning numerous accolades before graduating from Everly High School in 1962. He continued his education at Buena Vista University, where he majored in chemistry and set new track records in the mile and half-mile events before graduating in 1966.
Military Service and Family Life
Following his studies, Gary enlisted in the U.S. Air Force, serving for nearly a decade and achieving the rank of captain. His military career took him across several locations, including California, Vietnam, and Australia, where he worked at the Joint Defense Facility Nurrungar. It was in Australia that he met his future wife, Sheila Grist Scharnberg, who had immigrated from England.
The couple married in 1975 and returned to Everly to assist on the family farm. They faced heartbreak with the loss of their first son, Robert, shortly after birth, but later welcomed their son, Michael Geoffrey Scharnberg, in 1978.
Community Involvement and Legacy
Gary was deeply committed to his rural community, serving on various boards including the Co-Op Elevator and the United Farmers Telephone Company. He began working at Christian Sheet Metal in 1998, where he earned the nickname “Farmer” and continued to foster relationships with colleagues for nearly a decade.
In 2008, Gary became the family patriarch following the passing of his father. He took on the role of caregiver for his wife, Sheila, and his mother, Millie, as well as his sister, Jill, until their deaths. Despite life’s challenges, Gary was known for his warm smile, love for nature documentaries, and fondness for sharing a meal or a cold beer with friends.
Gary is survived by his son, Michael, who provided loving care during his father’s decline, as well as his siblings, Janet Carl-Scharnberg, Steven Scharnberg, and Charles (Chuck) Scharnberg, along with numerous nieces and nephews.
His funeral service is scheduled for January 7, 2026, at 10:30 a.m. at the Warner Chapel in Everly, with John Jensen officiating. Military honors will be rendered by the American Legion Everett Boyles Jr. Post 414. Gary will be laid to rest at Lone Tree Cemetery in rural Everly. Arrangements are being handled by the Warner Funeral Home.
