Carolyn Mailliard Hacker, aged 87, passed away on November 21, 2025, due to complications from Alzheimer’s disease. A resident of San Rafael, California for over six decades, Carolyn leaves behind a legacy of community service and a passion for gardening and genealogy.
A Life Rooted in Family and Community
Born in San Francisco in 1938, Carolyn was the eldest daughter of J.W. Mailliard and Margaret Field. She was also the eldest granddaughter of Ward and Kate Mailliard, whose family connections spanned the Bay Area, including San Geronimo, Cotati, and Yorkville. These locations held significant meaning for her throughout her life.
During her early childhood, Carolyn traveled extensively with her family as her father served in the United States Army. Following World War II, they returned to San Francisco, where Carolyn pursued her education at institutions such as KD Burke School, Katherine Branson Girls School, and later at Connecticut College for Women.
A Passionate Advocate and Gardener
In 1963, Carolyn made San Rafael her permanent home. Known for her love of gardening, she took pride in her beautiful plants, earning several awards at the Marin County Fair. Alongside gardening, Carolyn enjoyed knitting and dedicated significant time to genealogy, diligently researching her family’s history to preserve it for future generations.
Her commitment to community service was evident in her active involvement with the Miller Creek Elementary School District and the San Rafael City Schools District, where she volunteered from 1972 to 1980. Carolyn’s dedication to education and her belief in giving back were cornerstones of her life.
Carolyn is survived by her husband, Paul Hacker, and their children, Barbara (Greg) and Lyn (Don). She also leaves behind her grandchildren, Andrew (Katy), Chris, Emily (Mike), Amanda, and Kevin, as well as a great-granddaughter, Jocelyn. Her legacy continues through her sisters, Kathy and Margot, and numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins.
In honor of Carolyn’s contributions and her birthday, a Celebration of Life is planned for May 2026, coinciding with Mother’s Day. Her family requests that, in lieu of flowers, memorial contributions be directed to the San Rafael Public Library Foundation or the Marin Humane Society.
Carolyn Mailliard Hacker’s life was marked by a profound dedication to her family, community, and personal passions. Her legacy of service, love, and commitment will be cherished by all who knew her.
