In a heartwarming story from Mitchell, South Dakota, a family bond has deepened through the act of organ donation. In April 2024, Doug Backlund gave his left kidney to his uncle, Dan Backlund, who was on the brink of requiring dialysis. This life-changing decision not only saved Dan’s life but also rekindled a cherished connection that permeates their family.
The Backlunds, known for their light-hearted storytelling, recently shared their experience during a meeting of the Mitchell Lions Club. Doug, 41, revealed a newfound appreciation for green olives following the surgery, jokingly attributing his cravings to a kidney that now belongs to Dan, 71. “You want to give me a Christmas present, give me garlic-filled olives,” Dan quipped, demonstrating their humorous outlook on a serious situation.
Dan first discovered issues with his kidney function during a routine high school physical at the age of 16. This early detection led to years of medical evaluations, culminating in a search for a transplant six years ago. As his health remained stable, Dan began the process of getting on the donor list. Doug, recognizing his uncle’s need, stepped forward to explore the possibility of being a donor.
“I said, ‘Why in the hell would you give me a kidney?’” Dan recalled. Doug’s straightforward response was simple: “Because you’re my uncle and you need one.” This conversation marked the beginning of a rigorous medical evaluation process at the Rochester Mayo Clinic, where Doug underwent a series of tests, including blood work and psychological assessments. In September 2023, he learned that he was a match.
Doug reflected on the improbability of their match, saying, “The likelihood for Dan and I to become a match was extremely small… it would be like winning the lottery.” Initially slated for surgery in February 2024, the procedure faced delays due to concerns raised over Dan’s blood work, resulting in a rescheduling that added emotional strain to the process.
Both men were cleared for surgery in April and arrived at the hospital together. Doug, who had been meticulous in documenting the process, sought to capture every moment. “I actually have photos of the doctor carrying the kidney on a silver platter with ice from me to Dan,” he shared, highlighting the significance of the experience.
According to the United Network for Organ Sharing, over 25,000 kidney transplant surgeries occur annually in the United States, but there are typically around 90,000 people waiting for a kidney. This stark contrast emphasizes the importance of organ donation and the impact it can have on families like the Backlunds.
Dan expressed profound gratitude for his nephew’s gift, emphasizing how it has allowed him to spend more time with his four grandchildren. “What do you do for a person that gives you a kidney? There’s not really much you can do,” he said, acknowledging the depth of their familial bond.
Both men have since recovered well, with regular check-ups indicating that they are in good health. Doug’s commitment to his uncle not only saved a life but also strengthened their family ties, illustrating the powerful impact of organ donation on personal relationships.
